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      <image:caption>By Fred Colby, Author “You can enjoy life again; but, you may have to go through hell to get there... I had to." My mission is to help my fellow widowers to survive the first two years of deep grieving after losing their wives. A self-help book based on Fred Colby’s first-hand experiences as a widower and co-founder and co-facilitator of Pathways Men’s Grief Group. Fred incorporates extensive research and lessons learned by his fellow widowers. His writings have drawn praise from many widowers (see what they are saying in Testimonies/Reviews) and by Writer’s Digest and others. Widowers often feel that they are going crazy and may experience extreme loneliness, anxiety, depression, and anger. Fred’s book and blogs are designed to help his fellow widowers to survive this hell-on-earth experience which can lead to self-destructive behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, fractured relationships with family and friends, and loss of employment and/or financial security. Fred collaborates with others to help serve more widowers, including: National Widowers Organization, Widowers Support Network, Pathways Hospice, and Wings for Widows. CLICK TO HEAR A MESSAGE FROM FRED COLBY</image:caption>
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